
As winter gives way to spring in 2025, a wave of anticipation washes over me. My husband and I find ourselves standing at the edge of a significant life transition…a move from our peaceful coastal haven to a bustling city environment. After nearly a decade of living just 20 miles from the ocean, I am filled with a cocktail of emotions. Excitement mingles with bittersweet nostalgia as we prepare to leave behind a home that has been the cornerstone of our lives.

Our current home is more than just a cottage…it’s a haven filled with memories, laughter, and countless small moments that have defined this chapter of our journey. When we first downsized to a small beach cottage, we traded the hustle and bustle of Southern California for the serene rhythm of coastal life. Five years later, we embraced a more spacious residence that allowed us to stretch our wings while still being cradled by the Oregon coast.
But as time passes, so do our desires and priorities. Now, we are drawn to the energy and opportunities of city living. The prospect of a vibrant urban atmosphere, filled with eclectic theaters, gourmet restaurants, and cultural events, feels like the right next step. We’re excited about exploring new horizons, engaging in diverse experiences, and meeting interesting people who will enrich our lives in ways we can’t yet imagine.
Of course, with any transition comes uncertainty. Where will we settle in this new city? Will we find ourselves renting a cozy apartment nestled in a lively neighborhood, or will we gravitate toward a townhome that offers both community and comfort? The possibilities seem endless, and with each passing day, we find ourselves daydreaming about the rhythm of city life and the adventures that await us.
Leaving behind our beloved coastal town brings a sense of sadness. It’s hard to let go of the familiar comforts and the breathtaking views we’ve grown accustomed to. But there’s also a refreshing tranquility in knowing that change is a natural part of life. It’s an opportunity for growth and new experiences that will enrich our journey together.
As I reflect on how much I’ve changed since moving from the sun-soaked beaches of Southern California to our tranquil coastal cottage, and now to the buzz of city life, I’m struck by how each stage has shaped us. Each move has deepened our understanding of what we truly desire in a home and in life.
Ultimately, this move is more than just a change of geography. It symbolizes our acceptance of life’s ever-evolving nature. As we embrace this change together, I remain hopeful and eager for the next chapter of our story…a chapter where new adventures will unfold, and every moment holds the promise of joy, discovery, and fulfillment.

Oh, wow! You are moving!! Please continue your blog because I can’t imagine living without it!
Loved the tablescape and gave me some ideas of my own.
Very curious to find out where you and your family land!
Thank you for all your hard work!!!
Your comment truly made my day! Thank you so much for your kind words and support… It means the world to me. I’m so happy you enjoyed the tablescape and found some inspiration of your own! I promise to keep sharing, and I can’t wait to bring you along on this next adventure. Stay tuned!
Oh my God…i am doing just the opposite. Giving up my city life for my mountain cottage. Givibg up my school teaching of last over 20 years..need to garden and relax and maybe ciok.And I have enjoyed your posts…well..am so so happy for you and your so loving husband…wish me luck too
Neera, that sounds like such a meaningful transition! After 20 years of teaching, you’ve certainly earned some time to relax, garden, and enjoy life at a different pace. Wishing you all the best in this new chapter…may it being you peace and joy!
City life has significant benefits….interested in where you end up…..Oregon or Washington?
Susan, city life definitely has its perks! Life has a way of leading us to new places and experiences, and I’m embracing the journey. Oregon has been a wonderful chapter, and I’m excited to see what’s next. I’ll always appreciate that you were one of the few high school friends who came to visit when I first moved here…such a great memory! Hope you’re doing well…so nice to stay connected!
Oh my goodness you are moving? We are planning a trip up north in June and wanted to come by and see you. Hope that will still be possible?
Cindy, it’s so wonderful to hear from you! Yes, life is leading us into a new chapter, but I would absolutely love to see you when you’re up north in June. Let’s stay in touch and make it happen! Looking forward to catching up and sharing some special time together.xox
OK sounds good. I will keep you updated when the time gets closer and yes let’s get together! We are heading up to Washington first to see a good friend of mine then to see Debbie Bocanegra who lives just 30 minutes from my friend then hopefully will connect with you. We will be driving so I cannot wait to see everyone and the beautiful country up there. Cindy Siebold